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EMDR

EMDR Therapy in Chorley and Online

I offer Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing - EMDR - therapy in Chorley and online for adults who are struggling with trauma, distressing memories, anxiety, grief, and other experiences that may still feel emotionally overwhelming.

EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing. It is a well-researched therapy that helps the brain process distressing experiences so they feel less overwhelming in the present.

My approach to EMDR is warm, trauma-informed, and paced carefully around you. We do not rush into difficult material. We first work on safety, trust, grounding, and helping you feel more resourced before moving into deeper processing.

What is EMDR?

When something traumatic or deeply distressing happens, the memory can sometimes feel as though it has not been fully processed. Instead of feeling like something in the past, it can continue to show up in the present through:

  • flashbacks

  • intrusive thoughts or images

  • nightmares

  • anxiety or panic

  • strong emotional reactions

  • physical sensations that feel hard to explain

  • feeling triggered by reminders of what happened

EMDR helps the brain reprocess these memories so they no longer carry the same emotional intensity. During EMDR, we use bilateral stimulation — such as eye movements, tapping, sound, or buzzers — while working carefully with the memory.  Over time, many people find that the memory feels less distressing, less immediate, and less powerful, even though they still remember what happened.

What can EMDR help with?

EMDR is often used for trauma, but it can also be helpful for a wider range of difficulties where past experiences are still having an emotional impact in the present.

I may use EMDR to support clients with:

  • trauma and distressing memories

  • bereavement-related trauma

  • complicated grief

  • anxiety and panic attacks

  • stress

  • depression

  • phobias

  • sleep difficulties linked to distress or trauma

  • self-esteem difficulties

  • performance anxiety

What are EMDR sessions like?

EMDR is much more than simply using eye movements or tapping.  When we work together using EMDR, sessions may include:

  • talking through what has happened and what you would like help with

  • identifying the memories, images, beliefs, or sensations that feel most distressing

  • learning grounding and calming techniques

  • building emotional safety and stability

  • using bilateral stimulation to help process distressing material

  • strengthening more positive and compassionate beliefs about yourself

We work at a pace that feels manageable for you. You will not be pushed to go faster than feels safe.

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Do I have to talk about everything in detail?

Not necessarily.  Some people worry that EMDR means having to describe traumatic experiences in lots of detail. In practice, EMDR does not always require you to talk through every part of what happened at length. We work carefully and collaboratively, and I will support you in finding an approach that feels contained and manageable.

Is EMDR upsetting?

It can be emotional at times, because EMDR involves working with painful or distressing experiences.

That said, EMDR should not feel like being thrown in at the deep end. Before beginning memory processing, we spend time building grounding skills, emotional resources, and a sense of safety in the work. My aim is to help you feel supported throughout, not overwhelmed.

Is EMDR right for me?

EMDR may be helpful if you feel that past experiences are still affecting you in the present, even when you want to move forward.

You might be noticing that:

  • certain memories still feel raw or intrusive

  • you react strongly to reminders of the past

  • you feel stuck in fear, shame, grief, or anxiety

  • talking therapy alone has not quite helped things shift

  • you want a structured, evidence-based way of processing trauma or distressing experiences

If you are unsure whether EMDR is the right approach for you, we can talk that through together.

EMDR for trauma, anxiety and bereavement in Chorley

I offer EMDR therapy in Chorley, Lancashire, as well as online EMDR where appropriate.

My work is especially informed by trauma, bereavement, anxiety, and neurodiversity-affirming practice, and I aim to offer EMDR in a way that feels thoughtful, compassionate, and tailored to you.

Get in touch

If you would like to know more about EMDR therapy or see whether it may be right for you, you are very welcome to get in touch for a free short consultation.

There is no pressure — just a chance to ask questions and see whether this approach feels like a good fit.


📞 07834 720148
✉️ ruth@amethystcounselling.co.uk

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